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Jul 16

“Know Me Well Enough to Trust Me”

2012 at 4:22 pm   |   by Nicole Whitacre Filed under Biblical Womanhood

Sick child meant no church yesterday, so I listened to several sermons online. This is an excerpt from a wonderful sermon on faith by Sinclair Ferguson:

The Lord is constantly calling us to obey Him in connection with things that we don’t know what the next step is going to be. But He is saying to us, “Will you not trust me?”

Remember the conversation that Simon Peter had with Jesus on that day of the breakfast at the sea in John 21? They are walking along and Jesus actually says to him, “Now trust me Peter, you are going to die for my sake.” And Peter sees the apostle John hanging behind and he says, “Well, tell me about this man.”

And you see what he is saying. He’s saying, “That’s a huge challenge to my life. I want to know that I’m getting fair dues. And before I fully trust you for this, I need to know what’s happening. Are other people going to do this? Or is this just me?”

Isn’t it amazing, that in other respects if the Lord said to us, “I have an exclusive plan for you. I don’t have this plan for anybody else, you’re the only one that has this plan,” we say, “I want to have that plan if nobody else is getting it.”

But when it comes to trusting Him we’re inclined to say, “I might trust you if everybody else is on board.”

And we face that challenge constantly, don’t we? We find ourselves in situations where faith is challenged and because there are others on board we march on and we stand up. But there are situations where there is nobody else there. From the human point of view, people are challenging us.

But from the divine point of view, the Lord is saying now, “Trust me. Know me well enough to trust me.”

~from “The Old Couple” by Sinclair Ferguson, June 12, 2012

For more on John 21 watch Mom’s message from The Gospel Coalition Women’s Conference, “The Snare of Compare”

Jul 13

Friday Funnies

2012 at 9:54 pm   |   by Janelle Bradshaw

Today I drove to the bank.

I couldn’t find my deposit.

I drove home.

I couldn’t find my deposit.

I went back to the car.

I found my deposit.

I had been sitting on said deposit.

I drove back to the bank.

The end.

P.S. I’m pregnant.

Jul 12

A Cheap Substitute?

2012 at 4:26 pm   |   by Nicole Whitacre Filed under Biblical Womanhood | Time Management

Recently, Karen wrote in response to the post, “Because We Want To”:

As I read it I thought, “Yes, people are like this, restless and wanting diversion from reality.” And I realized as I read that I can understand people who don’t know Christ seeking solace in the distraction of the Internet, perfectly logical. But why does it also often describe me, as a believer? And not just me obviously or you wouldn’t be writing this series.

What have we missed in our understanding of our faith and our life in Jesus that we could fall into such a cheap substitute for real rest and peace? How could we buy this lie?

It’s something I will be thinking and praying about much more in the weeks ahead—and discussing with my friends (not on-line!) Thank you for your wise use of technology that is opening my eyes to face this and to hopefully in the process, draw closer to Jesus through His word. I am so glad He is the real source of peace in a heart-breaking world.

Our hope for this little conversation is to provoke all of us to ask heart questions like Karen. And to find our answers, with the help of the Holy Spirit, in the Word of God. Out of hearts satisfied in Christ, may we steward the gift of the Internet in such a way that keeps us from being “ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ” (2 Pet 1:5-9).

We’ll pick up the conversation next week, talking about online habits and home life.

Jul 10

girltalk links

2012 at 2:20 pm   |   by Nicole Whitacre Filed under Biblical Womanhood

We don’t have audio from Mom’s TGC session to share with you yet, but Paula Hendricks shares some reflections from her message over at the True Woman blog.


What does God’s Word have to say about childbirth? More than we might think. Rebekah Merkle explains.


These two articles from Mary Kassian are well worth your time—Complementarianism for Dummies and an insightful review of a new book about motherhood.