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Jul 12

Tori Girl

2007 at 4:38 pm   |   by Janelle Bradshaw

We’ve been getting requests for some new pics of sweet Tori. She is such a happy baby and makes picture taking very easy for her Auntie Janelle. Isn’t she a cutie pie?

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P.S. To all of you that have e-mailed and asked what camera I use, I shoot with a Nikon D70 and the 50mm f/1.4 and 105mm f/2.8 lenses.

Jul 11

January in July

2007 at 6:31 pm   |   by Nicole Whitacre Filed under Biblical Womanhood | Devotional Life

Banner4_2 This post is a bit out of place in the middle of July. It’s more at home in January—right around the first of the year. Actually, that was my problem this morning. It wasn’t the first of the year.

As I considered my current quiet time plan, I decided that I wanted to begin to read through the Bible during my daily devotions. Only, today is July 11, and as everyone knows, you are supposed to start these plans on January 1.

But God graciously inspired the good folks over at the ESV Bible blog to post a solution to my problem—today, July 11, of all days! Here is a plan that makes it easy to start reading through the Bible beginning today, or August 12, or September 13.

Whether you are reading through the Bible or studying a particular book (as I’ve been doing lately), may Psalm 119:18 be our prayer: “Open my eyes that I may behold wondrous things out of your law.”

Jul 10

An Interview with Our Editor

2007 at 6:06 pm   |   by Nicole Whitacre

9781581349139 For our new book, Shopping for Time, we were blessed to have a wonderful editor in Lydia Brownback. This was our first time working with Lydia, but we were so grateful for her skill, patience, and her eagerness to help us publish a book that truly “sounded” like us. Lydia embodies the selfless editor whose heart is to truly serve the author.

Given her familiarity with our book, we were so honored when she asked to interview us on her own (cleverly titled) blog—The Purple Cellar. Check out parts one and two, and be sure to read her other insightful posts as well.

Thanks for everything Lydia!

Jul 9

Thirty Years of Faithfulness

2007 at 7:33 pm   |   by Carolyn Mahaney

Dadboisvertwed001This morning, I woke up thinking about our dear friends Robin and Clara Boisvert. Thirty years ago today, they were married. Sadly, I don’t consistently remember all of my friends’ anniversaries. But I rarely forget Robin and Clara’s. That’s because I was in labor with my second child during their wedding ceremony.

Thankfully, Kristin waited until after the ceremony was over to make her entrance into this world. Not only would I have been disappointed to miss Robin and Clara’s wedding, but CJ was performing the ceremony!

I still remember sitting on the back pew of Christ Church in Washington, D.C. as the contractions were coming with persistent regularity. They were just far enough apart that I knew I still had time to make it through the wedding; but as soon as CJ concluded his responsibilities we drove straight to the hospital. Kristin was born in the wee hours that next morning.

But more than just the memories of that day thirty years ago, I’ve also been pondering God’s faithfulness in the intervening years. God has been faithful to us. He’s been faithful to the Boisverts. And He’s been faithful in our friendship—allowing us to serve together in ministry these past three decades. He’s been faithful to our children. We each have married children who are good friends with each other and grandchildren who go to playgroup together.

The Bible regularly exhorts us to remember, to think about, to ponder the faithfulness of God (As in Psalm 103:2—“Forget not all his benefits.”). You may not remember what you were doing thirty years ago today (unless you were in labor too!) but you certainly can recall the events of this past year, month or even week and find many evidences of the goodness of God. There are the blessings of family and friends. But most of all, there is the perfect love of Christ, revealed on the cross 2000 years ago.

P.S. Happy 30th Anniversary Robin and Clara!
P.P.S. Happy 30th Birthday tomorrow my dear Kristin!

Jul 6

Book Club Week 4

2007 at 12:08 pm   |   by Nicole Whitacre Filed under Biblical Womanhood | Book and Music Reviews

12993471_2 This chapter is a winsome polemic for “A Clear Appreciation of Our Complementarity.” In a culture where biblical manhood and womanhood are not appreciated, but rather maligned, it is vitally important that we fight to maintain our own appreciation of the way that God has made us to glorify Him.

We must also pass this value on to our children.

On page 67, Ensor quotes Wendy Shallit, who observes that her generation learned their distorted view of manhood and womanhood “with our ABC’s.” So, what are our children learning from us?

It’s never too early to begin teaching our children about God’s design for men and women. We’re constantly telling Jack, “That’s what boys do!” Boys hold the door for the girls. Boys play with army men. Boys are tough. And boys aren’t better than girls, we explain. Just different. And we celebrate the differences.

If you are the parent of a teenager, consider reading and discussing this chapter with your son or daughter. Check their “appreciation-o-meter” when it comes to biblical manhood and womanhood and where necessary, remind them of God’s perspective.

For boys, “Show Yourself A Man” by Randy Stinson is an outstanding resource. I also recommend Mom’s thoughts on this topic. And Steve recently purchased a book called The Dangerous Book for Boys which is positively reviewed by Al Mohler. For girls, we wrote Girl Talk to help moms inspire their daughter to biblical womanhood. For young girls, a kitchen set might also help.

In obedience to the opening verse of this chapter, let’s help our children not be conformed to this world, but transformed by the renewing of their mind. Let’s teach them, along with their ABC’s, to love being boys and girls.

Jul 5

Some Info

2007 at 3:49 pm   |   by Janelle Bradshaw

A few things for y’all to check out today:

Daveharveybk_2First, for our married and single readers, be sure to obtain the new book from Dave Harvey, When Sinners Say “I Do”: Discovering the Power of the Gospel for Marriage. Dave is the pastor of Covenant Fellowship Church in Philadelphia and also serves on the Sovereign Grace Ministries leadership team. My dad writes about his book, “Dave Harvey not only offers a biblical diagnosis of marital strife, but prescribes the cure as well—the gospel. When Sinners Say “I Do” provides clarity in conflict, hope in despair, and points the way to a joy-filled, God glorifying marriage.” Carolyn McCulley also offers an excellent review of this book and why it will benefit both married and single alike. Happy reading!

Alexbrett_3Calling all those from ages 10-20! Alex and Brett Harris from The Rebelution Blog have taken their passion to see teens rebel against the low expectations of our culture and follow God’s plan for their lives on tour! Al Mohler says of these guys, “The Rebelution is one of the most encouraging developments I have seen in many years. Alex and Brett are young men of conviction, passion, and courage. Their call to their generation is faithful to the gospel and honoring to Christ. The Rebelution is a sign of hope—and a call to action.” They have three more conferences planned over the next several months. Check out their conference website for all of the details.

Hope your day is full of fun!

Jul 3

Shopping for Time

2007 at 3:53 pm   |   by Nicole Whitacre Filed under Biblical Womanhood | Time Management

9781581349139_2 Today, we’re pleased to announce that our little book, Shopping for Time has been released. We are so grateful to God for the opportunity to partner with the wonderful folks at Crossway Books. To learn more about the book, you can read a review by Leslie Wiggins of Tim Challies’ Discerning Reader, as well as an interview with the four of us. We hope this humble volume will serve to encourage, inspire, and assist you as you seek to glorify God with your use of time.

Jul 2

Tell Me A Story, Dad

2007 at 4:52 pm   |   by Nicole Whitacre

Like all children, my sisters and I would often ask our parents to tell us stories: about their childhood, how they met, and especially the silly things they did before they became grown ups and didn’t do silly things anymore (like how Dad convinced the other kids on his block to do his paper route for him, or when Mom and Uncle Grant threw rocks at the bees nest and Mom left Uncle Grant—who couldn’t run fast enough—behind to get stung). My favorite—and after thirty-one years I still haven’t tired of hearing it—is the story of my dad’s conversion. Now, you too can listen to my dad tell his story of God’s electing grace on YouTube (who’d have guessed?):

You can read a very kind review of my dad’s book Living the Cross Centered Life (which includes more of his story!) at Monergism.com.